I did something this week with the best of intentions and genuine hopefulness that something good will come of it.
I helped my brother-in-law, Chad, create an eHarmony account.
It was quite the interesting …. entertaining, humorous, enlightening, and fun …. experience. I walked Chad through the VERY comprehensive profile questionnaire and talked to him via speakerphone while I used my laptop to record his responses. He read the questions and followed along on a desktop computer. It was fun to listen as he read the questions and thought through his responses. He was very thorough and honest.
After all was checked and described, Chad had a great profile. His selections match his personality perfectly. He’s a dependable, mature, loving guy looking for similar qualities in a woman. While this is a very serious ordeal to Chad, we shared some belly laughs when we reached the less-than-serious subjects such as physical activity, hobbies, and favorite food. Chad was disappointed when “meat and tators” wasn’t a food option!!!!
Chad’s smile is contagious.
Now, there are a few things I want to share about my brother-in-law that is difficult to understand from an online profile page:
- Chad’s a simple guy. No baggage, no drama and definitely low maintenance.
- Chad is a hard worker, extremely loyal, very kind, and humble ….. some of the most notable traits of the Hutchison bunch.
- Every Saturday morning, you’ll find Chad at the livestock auction. He has a small herd of cattle. Actually, he has a bull, several heifers, and some calves. Two of those calves will be in the freezer soon. (Yum!)
- Chad’s laugh is contagious ….. and it makes others laugh.
- Chad has a heart of gold.
What else can I say?
Here’s a really great guy ready to commit to a relationship filled with love, compassion, kindness, and lots of laughter. If some Fluzie plays games and breaks my brother-in-law’s heart, I’m gonna be pissed off.
Talk about an act of love for his “yankee” sister-in-law …… after Husband and I were married, Chad wore a “Kentucky” hat at the reception!!!
I’m really fortunate and I realize my abundant blessings in faith and family. I’m optimistic for Chad. If I didn’t love him, I wouldn’t have encouraged, or assisted with, this bold step in his personal life. I really ~ REALLY ~ want this to work. I can say with confidence that he’s a great catch. He will take care of the woman who looks beyond the superficial and recognizes that which is most important.
Update ……….. Chad called earlier to tell us his profile has been viewed by several ladies and some of them have requested to communicate.
